my crazy mess part 3...

[christarn]

I snuck out more than you can imagine...my dad built me a club house, i would even say (when I was a teenager) that I was staying all night in the clubhouse/camping out...and then have my high school boy friend come pick me up...then we would go do whatever all night long...drink, ride 4wheelers...and yes, what teenagers do, that you are not supposed to do

he (H) gave me one hell of a lashing....

the pool...oh FG...the damn pool...yuck...yes it is in his interest to fix the pool, the deck(more of my inheritance) is custom built around the pool...so if the pool isn't there...the deck will look kind of ridiculous...but if he has to for any reason sell the house to pay me off(I don't like talking negative...because, this is going to work out!!) the deck and pool look nice together...now again, i have to think all of this and not say it to him!! LESSON LEARNED!!

i want to solve the pool problem, in a way he will be ok with, and he thinks it's not because of any other reason just because....another reason i want him to have a few days "off" from me!! not that he will forget that drama filled conversation!!

i miss being a kid and sneaking out....i even got busted one time saying i was staying all night at my friend jamie's house...well her and i didn't stay at her house...we went camping with the boys...oh and we so got busted!! my dad drove by jamie's house on his way to work, my car wasn't at her house...not good...i got grounded for a week or two...when i was young...that was a tragedy...

i miss simplicity

no one said this life would be easy...they just said it would be worth it...

thanks FG!

.....that damn pool....5 years ago, i never would have thought a pool, would be so much work.....literally.....it was physical work.....now it's becoming mental work!! LOL

did you sneak out? why the question