i need to show her she's making a mistake somehow and that she really still loves me. is this possible ?
Well, I think we've been saying this, but yes. Be the best that you can be for you. Be the goal-oriented, interesting, interested person you probably were when she first got to know you.
When you live your own life and are willing to go after what you want - you're more attractive. And she'll respond to that. But there are many layers of pain and hurt around her heart right now, and if she has an OM, well.... You don't stand a chance with her emotions either.
That said, she's noticing. She's definitely noticing. That's why everyone around here says "Be the greener grass".
And exactly how do you get "knowing" that she cares about you whe she has a sullen look on her face when you tell her how you feel? I would think it was the exact opposite. Sorry, but you're only hurting yourself with denial. If she cared about you, she'd be trying to make the M work. She checked out awhile ago. So be the greener grass. You attracted her once by being who you are.
