its hard to try and save a relationship when there's OM and the wife wants to be with him. we aren't divorced yet, but it's coming, i am just hoping that even though she tells me so adamantly that's it over, it isn't. is there any chance that she still loves me and wants me back. she is being brutally honest with me ? ( so i'm led to believe ).
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF