Hey, maybe she'll let me change her topsoil...would that be a good thing? OK, what are the odds that she doesn't get back to me at all? My experience with women, as limited as that may be, tells me it's about 50/50 and that's being pretty darn optimistic! I really hope that if she doesn't want to she will just say so, I would respect that greatly. But, in all honesty, I didn't pick up any discomfort on her part and really walked away feeling that she genuinely had to think about it. Although, we don't work for the same department and we don't share clients etc, we still have contact and know all the same people. She's been pretty uptight about interacting with me around others but is way personable when we're alone in her office. So, I'll wait and see, if she doesn't get back to me I will let it go and lessen my little office visits. If she says OK, we'll go from there. She was telling me how she missed her church back home because the church she goes to now is "so family oriented that if you are single you can feel pretty left out and lonely" I thought I'd step up and fill that lonely void in her life. I presented it as an opportunity for us to go out and have some fun together as the Saturday service is lively, fun and casual. We'll just "plant" ourselves in a pew and photosynthesize!