She said "divorce me and make it right" because then she can say you BOTH wanted this and BOTH realized that it was best. She wants to pretend you have already worked on things and tried and have come to this realization that it won't work. Problem is she knows you both haven't tried together yet. If you divorce her, in her mind she will believe you both agreed.
She really may mean what she says about knowing she has to cut ties with OM but doesn't know how to do it. I was there. She feels she loves him, she is addicted to what he gives her.....it is hard to go through withdrawel and hard to see someone that you feel you love hurt. That is what she is going through. Help her through this by saying you know it is very hard, but you need her to do this.
I truly felt this coming from her, btw.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
