Ever walk through life thinking it's just so surreal? The daily changes, the constant motion...perhaps it's the heat. It IS 113 degrees today.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I need a drink. I think I'll pop into Jeff's thread for that!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
ms ladybug- yes- DETACH or you will go crazy and look at advice in MLC- there are some great DO's and DONT'S that helped me...but be careful of bashing you r H- it can only hurt you....and DO not believe anything of what they say and only 50% of what they do. this is very true- very hard to follow but it will save you!
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
Hey Ms. Ladybug, I just noticed (the 113 made me check!) you're in Cali, too. I know we can't give detailed specifics on the boards but I'm up in the Sac area. I can so relate to the surreal-ness. And I really do think this heat is contributing to it in some ways! People seem either depressed or grouchy and it's sure tough to keep your PMA up when it's hot, smoky (if you've got that too, it's absolutely stifling here), and everyone around you's kinda grumpy too.
Do your best to detach from it all, and have some fun too. Maybe you and the kids can play in the sprinklers for awhile?
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Yep. We've got the smokiness too. I'm in the central valley, so the smoky air has no where to go. It just sits here in the heat. Yuck. Thanks for stopping by Niki. Whats the 113?
H just asked me...I must be crazy for not jumping at the chance to move to Santa Maria. He just doesn't get it. We're talking attorneys and divorce and he says, "would you like to move to the coast?" He REALLY just doesn't get it. I honestly hope he moves. Distance would be my friend right now.
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Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
