ms ladybug- yes- DETACH or you will go crazy and look at advice in MLC- there are some great DO's and DONT'S that helped me...but be careful of bashing you r H- it can only hurt you....and DO not believe anything of what they say and only 50% of what they do. this is very true- very hard to follow but it will save you!
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