Bill, as usual, well said. Actually that is some of your best work. You are right that my story is still young. Do I think I could take my W back if after (let's say) 4-6 months she wants to try? I don't know. But I owe it to me and Abby to get to that point or at least try. So I need to keep my distance, DB, continue on me and of course, continue on Abby.

What have I done today? Signed Abby up for 5yr old soccer, which starts in September, set up her first dentist visit (told W I'd take her), and follow up on her kindergarden/after school program. I feel like I want to focus on Abby's school....I've been really excited about her starting. I also think I'm going to get involved in her school, which is very unlike me but I want to do this. So I've got some short term Abby goals.

Of course I still have my 169.9 lb goal, which a friend has to give me $1k if I get to so that's a focus.

Bill, great post though. Is that copyrighted?


M 35 W 28 D 4

Bomb 4/28/08
Found out about PA 05/14/08
Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)

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