No point in dropping your bomb aka an Ultimatum and then sending the I will always love you.. help you stuff too ! It's like telling a kid No.. and then saying maybe later !
I am not a big advocate of these sort of letters and things btw.. I mean.. just tell it like it is and let it be.
You have been walking on the shells lately btw.. and it aint Easter.. Didnt she just throw away a letter not too long ago ?