Makes my head spin. I want to close my eyes, be divorced, full-custody of the kids, new house, h in another country (just kidding on the last part, wouldn't be good for the kids).
So, now h is in another town today doing a ride-along for another police dept. This one is only about 3hrs away...ON THE COAST! Remember the friend moving to TN? Now the friend is moving to the central coast in CA! Anyways, h is doing a ride along, and tells me that if he likes it, he's going to apply, and being a small-town dept, the hiring process may be quick (like 8-30days). Now, I don't know ANY police dept, small or not that can hire in as little as 30days, much less 8!! Quick, and RASH I might add, since he only started thinking about this 5days ago! It's all about his "buddy" though. He should marry HIM! I'd jump to live on the central coast, way before I'd ever move to TN, but still, a move in a bad marriage is a bad move. I'm staying PUT! How's he gonna get 50% living 3hrs away?
Maybe I should move to MLC. The motorcycle, the constant need to MOVE, change job careers, etc...hhhmmmm
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
