well here is another reason that i didnt mention- i guess i more concerned with the affect it may have on my R..so it was more an R issues...
another reason is our anniversary is july 21st...my DB coach suggested a card and maybe a small gift...and ask if he wants to do lunch or something-- but now i wont be here for it...
and i do agree about the fact i dont know you- but your calm words are tied into saving my M so I am trying to make the "right" decision..
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese