Wifey, you ready for this? I took a 10 day trip to Scotland alone with my wife when we were 11 months into seperation.
I know the anxiety, I know the fear, and I know the feeling of not knowing what to do.
So needless to say, I survived the ordeal. I actually did really well on the trip. The key for me was detachment. I focused on what I wanted to do, I would leave her at times to go see stuff I wanted to see. This weekend for you can be an opportunity to show him that you are strong and that you are finding your own feat so to speak.
Instead of feeling concerned about what could go wrong, start thinking about all that can go right. The power of positive thinking is amazing when you are trying to DB. This weekend is your opportunity to showcase what you are learning and how much in control you are.
So in simplest terms, if you want to fish, fish. If you want to take a nap, take a nap. If you want to run bare asss naked through the woods, do it (make sure there are no kids around of course). Point is that your showing off your independance and ability to choose what you want is a very attractive thing for a man.
