Well, I hope that the talk about negative posters was not directed toward me......at least I didn't think I was being "negative" about using the LL. I was just expressing how I felt when I was an almost WAW and I do agree that if you rush her or pursue her before she is ready, it could backfire on you easily. Now, maybe that is seen as being negative and I am not trying to pull you down and discourage you, but I have seen a lot of H's get in too much of a hurry b/c they could not stand the slooooooow process and would do as you said and start trying to get back together before the time was right.
As I told you in my last post, I have lost a little time and when I start trying catch-up is the pits...lol. But, I didn't want anyone to think I was trying to be "negative".....but I am being realistic. If you can use what anyone else has suggested with the LL, I hope it works.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
