well the dope that I am, i ruined it. had a long talk on the phone. i attempted to get her to see the light, and she was taking the wrong path, and to stop this before its too late. but of course,"it's too late. the game is over and you've run out of time. i'm sorry you didn't end up being the man of my dreams; i'm done investing time in this relationship. you've had your chance" low blows, clear cut. so after some thinking, I called back and said very calmly I just wanted to get along. no more R talk in person, through text, or on the internet. just want to be civil and i'm done pursuing her. I am fed up with her stubborness. how the heck can you turn your back on someone you had a child with ? i thought it was never too late to save a marriage. this is totally all crap.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF