(((Dar))) (((Michelle))) we are already committed to football and DS wouldn't give that up for anything. Until school starts, football is 5 nights a week. Once school starts its at least 3. Fall ball starts in early September and lasts until November, so does football, so there is a higher than likely chance that it would be EVERY night. H doesn't take DS to practice, but since he is in town now, he might.

I'm not sure if it is so much about losing the kids, because I have never kept him from them, he has just been so busy in the past couple of months gambling and playing that he hasn't seemed to want to spend time with them. They would be at MIL's house and he would leave to go gamble or hang out with OW instead of being with them. He now seems more focused on being with them.

[quote=MichelleLT]His insecurity is showing in how he is desperate to have something to do as a family. Very interesting.
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Michelle can you elaborate on your theory? Is it more about being involved as a "family" or an excuse to spend time with me without the need for an excuse to her?


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option