Agree on the who to tell point (although at one time I wanted to have a billboard sign put up ). The IL's will be the only others that would immediately be on the hit list if it came to that. As one of my good friends put it, FIL needs to know so he can kick her 42 year old a$$ till she gets some sense. Not that that would happen (the sense part) but the a$$kicking is a definite probability.
You are right, she is not a bad person. I have told her this (when OMW called back in April). She is a good person who has done bad things.
I do not want to paint her out as the witch she is acting like right now, but I am not going to protect her from the consequences of her decisions at this point either. I gave that a shot before (I keep it quiet if she goes NC) but she did not like that arrangement...
Just the TRUTH. While the truth may hurt to hear, I cannot be hurt if I stick to telling the truth.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
). The IL's will be the only others that would immediately be on the hit list if it came to that. As one of my good friends put it, FIL needs to know so he can kick her 42 year old a$$ till she gets some sense. Not that that would happen (the sense part) but the a$$kicking is a definite probability.
