took the time to revisit your old threads. WOW, it is like seeing myself to a large extent all over again. It is amazing that when I looked at Puppy's thread and then revisited yours, there are so many darn similarities.
Oh well, we will see what happens from here on in. WW does sound determined. However, I,like you H4U, will be telling folks this was not my decision and what the "straw that broke the camel's back" was. I am sure WW doesn't think I would do that, especially with our K's, but it WILL happen.
If nothing else, my K's are going to know that their dad did not give up on his family and was willing to try everything. May paint WW to be the bad guy, but I CANNOT NOR WILL I DEVIATE FROM THE TRUTH!!!!! Enough lying and B.S. for one year already!
That is exactly what I thought. I would NOT LET MY KIDS THINK I RAN OUT ON THEM. If/when you tell the kids, make sure you do it in a loving way. Their mom isn't a bad person, just did/is doing a bad thing.
I would just advise to be careful about who you tell. Only tell those that could have an influence on your wife. It will make recovery that much easier when this affair ends, which it will.
Like Puppy says, Keep fighting the good fight.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
