For the Guy with kids and a WW 6

[hopeful4her]

I'm going to put something like that in the letter I write. If we seperate, and she can give up OM, really give him up, then ask for retrouvaille.

I will tell her that if she can't give him up, then just divorce me. I will not divorce her.

Not too long ago, with me telling her that what she is doing is wrong, she told me, "Then divorce me and make it right." I think it was in the beginning of May. Big arguement.

I'm going to remind her about that and let HER make it right.

If after x amount of time, nothing has changed....after NC with OM (full transparency to you), books, counseling, retrouvaille, then you both can say you tried and call it quits.

I basically told her this again last Sunday. She told me she knows what she has to do, she just didn't know HOW to do it.

But we don't believe cheaters, right?

It could be that I am letting her moods effect me.

Again. I am just at the end of my rope. I just don't see any intention to end things with him. Not the way she should be at least.

Am I looking for someone to tell me otherwise? Not sure.