Dance - Admittedly her lack of confidence about her appearance is one of our stumbling blocks in our SL. I have told her over and over that she is still so beautiful to me and that is all that really matters. You are right that I can't do anything about the way that she feels about herself though.
Her best attribute is her hair. She has the most gorgeous, long and thick hair. I love touching her hair and drive her crazy always wanting to catch a whiff of it. Not much of a strip tease body part although a nice enhancement to the overall effect.
Anyway here is my idea: She has been taping and doing the workouts to the Shimmy program on FitTV. It's a workout based on belly dancing movement and steps. The first time I saw it and found out that she was taping them, I asked her when she was going to dance for me. She thought I was joking but I was really serious. I would love to see her dance like that for me.
I could get the DVD of season 1 for her now (almost time for her B-day) and then get her the dancing costume later with the request for a performance on my B-day about 7 months from now. I'll have to get some music too. The best part is that the costume will support and cover most of her embarrassing areas and her beautiful hair gets played up too, a win-win. I guess I'll have to find the belly dancing store in town and start shopping for the clothing right away.
You know I hadn't really thought about getting a sensual belly dance from her again until you mentioned about playing up her great assets. Thanks DQ