I hope your wife will get over her OM as I did. Soon, you will have your chance to talk about everything. Don't hold back, get your feelings out. But do write according to the rules. It will be more successful if you follow the rules.
Didi,
You ask a difficult question. I think any two people can feel love if they choose to. And I think even the most "meant to be" people can not feel love if they choose not to. I have become convinced that love is a choice. And you make that choice every day. You choose to love with your actions, and you choose to love in your mind.
