Theo,
Unfortunately, your summation of my situation is correct. My H has taken advantage of me over and over again and I have allowed it. You are correct in assuming that is why I took the name yoyowife. You have been a rock for me many times.


I am going dark right now to figure out my next steps. I know I must do something. Right now I'm teetering between sending a "tough love letter" first and give him a small window to reply or just going ahead and filing without the letter. Those are my only two options and I'm trying to decide which way to go.

Any opinion would be appreciated.

Hugs, Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon