Thanks WDID. I used to do things like this all the time and I think maybe now that I've stopped doing them she's starting to recognize it. That, plus she seems to be getting though WD so maybe she's recognizing those things she misses now that she's separated from OM some.
I'm not going to push anything now. She knows I have the books. If we keep progressing I'm sure there will be a point where she figures out that she's going to have to help me recover and I assume part of that will be her asking me what she can do for me and the books will be one of the things.
I am embracing this stuff while trying to not get too darn excited. But there's definitely a great big on my face. I'm just ready to do the difficult work that will be required to get past this stuff.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.