I am NOT going to dwell on the Why's and the what if's but I did want to first thank you for the 'intro" to Retro and say this. WHen I read :
" But I chose my husband because OM (Was)did not want to get married, and he didn't want children. Things were fine for several years, but then I started missing OM. And I found out he had married someone else. I was heartbroken because I thought he would never marry. That if things didn't work out in my marriage, I could get back together with him. Anyway, the mind took over. I became angry with my husband, convinced he had stolen me away from my true love. And I kept in touch with OM periodically. Even saw him a couple of times. This went on for years!"
I get the feeling my wife could have wrote that.( WIth my red edit).
Everything is quiet here. Wife has buried herself in her school work. Oh ya I put my wedding ring back on. I figured took it off not because I wanted to. I took it off to prove a point. So from this moment on I am doing what I want to do..
Later H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know