WAW is full steam ahead

[Neilh23]

I don't either, however, that's why in DR we're told to start with a "beginners mind." They need to become comfortable around us again....and smiling is a great first step.

I think that means to, if she wants to talk to you, do it at your convienance. In other words, don't jump every time she needs something. Have your life, and don't let her control it. She needs to experience this "thing" on her own. I know, i have difficulty with this. I purposely don't call or text her back right away now. it's so foreign because we used to be at each others beck and call....so it'll feel weird for a long time. still is for me.