Thanks Michelle for coming over to answer my questions. So, I'm assuming there is some sort of attorney/mediator involved in a legal sep. to figure out child support/custody, spousal support, etc...? Does it mean one of us would have to take our name off the house? I'm still confused.
Wifey, thanks for coming over here too! I know there are changes I need to make. I've acknowledged them, apologized for them, just don't know how to change them...
It would be an eye-opener for h to be with the kids for 4days straight. I was thinking about that this morning when I was trying to get us all out the door. S2 was upset because he wanted to be naked, and I put clothes on him. D4 was in her own world when I asked her several times to get dressed. Then she sneezed and I had to change her shirt. The thing is h lives with his parents whom I'm sure would help out/do everything for the kids. H would never have to cook dinner with them running around. H would never have to take them to the grocery store, or even entertain them all day. I would get blamed everytime one of them whines, or does something wrong because he doesn't think I discipline them enough. This is not going to be good.
I can't NOT be around my kids for 50% of the time, when I've always been around them 100%!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
