I agree whole-heartedly with Theo's assessment. I particularly think the yo-yo analogy is quite apt. Being an old yo-yo aficionado, I can add one thing about the back-and-forth behavior of a yo-yo: it only lasts as long as one supplies energy to the situation. Once the energy is removed, gravity takes completely over and eventually the see-saw effect ends.
Bottom line: Yoyo, don't be party to giving your H's situation any more energy.
