....here's the bottom line....now that you will act more and more like those romance novel guys, I bet your wife will act more and more like a porn star for YOU and you will even get to ask her for a few special favors soon.
It's already begun to unfold this way, even in the short amount of time involved since we made this shift. And....I'll simply say that the benefits in the bedroom have been surprising, and most enjoyable. Ask? I just need to command or do, and she's right there with me. The freedom has been marvelous, and admittedly, a bit scary too. It's all new territory for the both of us.
You're recommended book came yesterday, so I'll be gleaning it for new ideas! We have another, say, 20 years of exploration to fill.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
