Sue, your H deserves a public flogging. But the punishment he will receive someday will be by his own hand.

We should pity him at the same time we despise his horrible behavior.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.