New to this forum and need help..

[tmarie]

We are both working in the office today.. Its been alot of fun.. I haven't worked here in quite awhile but its fun to see my H and have him see me back in action... I happen to be very good at what I do, and the vibe. I really believe he likes me being here.. His customers like me and that is always good for business, plus the fact I can be a flirt and men usually like that.. they would rather flirt/negotiate with me than haggle with him, and that takes the pressure off...

I checked out the 5 Languages of Love online, I really think it will be a great book to read.. It was an awakening to to hear out loud how my H NEEDS to be loved.. I have been loving him, but only in the way I wanted to be loved.. That to me is HUGE.. That realization alone has helped TREMENDOUSLY in the last few days/weeks..

I think that with your plan...(the Master Plan as I call it)the 180's will help you.. but more so your positive, happy, AS-IF attitude will benefit you and your W and your kids.. positive vibes can be contagious especially in situations such as ours... If you are happy, the kids are happy, which in turn.. W is happy.. no pressure, just happy thoughts.. who can argue with that?