okey dokey- that helps a lot- thats probably what he is doing is getting them out...just the undertones of depression and negativity are still there and i am so used to swooping in and "fixing" it...so this is a good lesson for me bc there is nothing to fix- just like you said..i just get to listen...thanks Neil!
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