Valentine's Day Massacre - Moving Forward Together

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I would love to give OW's H DR, but I am afraid it would backfire... and he would tell her I contacted him. But, I am hoping to run into him and get to talk to him. Would love for him to DB her back home.

I had a revelation yesterday and decided to "move on" emotionally. You are right. I am exploring new avenues, getting busier. I look good, have lost a lot of weight and am body for lifing on the weights. I am becoming much less available because I am getting so busy. You are right, I am a better person for it, whether he comes around or not. I told my kids we will be fine, we will have fun, we are the three muskateers. They don't respect him and want nothing to do with him, unfortunately. If he chooses this life, fine, he will have to play the cards he's dealt himself. We will all be okay, without regrets and with our morals and character intact. Thanks a bunch for your post.