Looking for support from other WAS's

[alexjadams]

lost3031,

You really need to talk to HOPEFULinCALI & AnonymousJane73, before you pursue this D

1. You're husband is only 50% of the blame on what went wrong in your marriage

2. I know you feel really good right now to be on your own, but what are you going to do when you miss (and you will) your husband

3. Be aware if you do want to come back to him he doesn't have to take you (you must remember everything you are putting him through right now, just like the lack of.... that got you to this point he's will have a lack of.... moment & at some point you got fed up, therefore he will as well)

4. Please realize that this man is changing himself for you FOR YOU!! Please take some time & acknowledge that! And understand the significance of that NOW! Because again when you realize it will most likely be too late (you became frustrated about the situation, and wish to no longer wait & is now a WAW the tables will turn & you might become the LBS, talk to "HOPEFULinCALI")

5. Please no other men take this time for YOU because
a. Whatever issues you have that you haven't resolved within your self will appear in the new relationship like your marriage
b. Someone else can't fix you or make you happy, YOU! Have to do that!
c. And if there is a OM (which I believe there is), his shine wares off (trust me it will) that may be too much for your husband to recover from

6. True Love is "giving & expecting nothing in return" if you're not giving it there is no way it will be returned to you

7. Last, and please believe me you have or is about to quit on your marriage, believe me the next relationship you have that person will quit on you trust me (unless you do 5a)

I would hope you take my advice but you probably won't you may not be open to it at this time, but please try, because 1st marriages fail 50%, second marriages fail 65%, 3rd marriages are over 75 % your chance to have a successful one will be harder

Good luck