Valentine's Day Massacre - Moving Forward Together

[holdingon]

Ellie, sorry about your son, hopefully, it was a hard lesson learned... and hopefully no scars. You have been helpful to me in the past... I don't want to drag up any bad feelings, but, I have attacks (a lot) of insecurity and just want to ask you about your H's A. While my H was at home he was having an A and I did not recognize it. I had no reason to not believe my H was telling me the truth, he had never lied to me before starting this A. Anyway, it is, of course, with a nurse in his office. She has since quit/been fired but the A continues. I found out 6/12. Will he ever quit with her? She has 4 kids, moved out of her home into an appt close to my home, her H is D her. I know she is after my H for the MD and $. He seems completely smitten with her, like there is no end in sight. He is still peeved at me about everything. My kids want nothing to do with him. OW's kids are going to the HS my kids go to now. I am sick of all of this. I am a smart, professional woman who has never wanted anything but to love and care for my family. H entered MLC in Nov and has been having A since. Any hope at all??

A couple of weeks ago he told me I should see his C. I called the C and haven't heard back from him. Don't know if anything will come of this.

I detach, detach have good days, then back to wondering what the H*LL am I doing.