hx for stopping by, and tink don't be a stranger, hopefully you got your pc fixed...if not I will come fix the darn thing for ya or just build you a new one!!!
LOL Well I have a friend who is coming over today or next week so hopefully soon! Thanks
Here are a few thoughts. Regarding her obsession with trying to get you to think of "bimbos" etc it's to alleviate her own guilt. Because it's like when someone does drugs and thinks there is nothing wrong with it--or tries to convince themselves--that it's hip and they are in the know, they try to get someone who doesn't do drugs to do it beccause it THEY did it then see it really isn't that bad and in fact is cool and sophisticated.
When I was boyfriend/girlfriend with my fiance, I was moving faster commitment-wise than he was mostly because he just got divorced two years before we met and hadn't dated anyone yet, and partly becaues of my own commitment issues at the time--it's easier to focus on whether someone wants to marry you than actually be in the relationship and do the relationship.
Anyway it all worked out. But at one point back then, I told him I was going to start dating other people since he didn't know what he wanted, and he said to me "If you do, it's going to change the way I feel about you."
That really affected me because I wanted to bring him closer and want to marry me, not turn him off.
I'm not sure now if I'm digressing or if this is connected to your situation...there's a meaning in here somewhere.
