Went to work this morning in a pretty good mood. We had a building meeting that ran long. When I got back to my desk, I had 2 messages. The first one I could just hear some crying. The second one was D4's voice saying....mommy, where are you? I thought maybe she'd just woken up when she called, but I called back to check. H handed the phone to D4 and she was very, very upset & crying. She told me that she didn't feel well and that daddy was mad because she wanted to wear a dress to school. This dress is not too short in my opinion, but H wanted her to wear shorts under it, as he thought it was too short. I heard him yell.....THEN TELL YOU MOM TO COME AND GET YOU. I'M SICK OF YOU. Then he grabbed the phone and said....GET YOUR ASS HOME AND GET HER. I got home as quickly as I could. D4's eyes were very red. H said to me....You can take her to school every day from now on and he walked out, slamming the door. He is participating in a golf outing today for work. D4 cried asking why daddy was so mad and why he hit the wall. Then she asked when daddy would be nice to her again. I just cried. I cried the whole way home, not expecting her to be hurt but because of the hurt I heard in her voice. So, even though I really should take her to school, I am going to spend the day with her.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
