AD - It's taken me time to recognise this also and similarly to MA, I never thought my W would stoop as low as to cheat on me. I encouraged the going out etc before this all kicked off and even accepted she would/was getting chatted up and bought drinks etc as we had agreed in MC and together that we would speak to one another if we met someone before we did anything to be respectful. Well, more fool me !!!
Anyway, babbling about me a bit there, as others said to me and I hated it at the time, the chances are your wife is definately in an EA and quite possibly a PA or will be eventually. I don't believe you can stop this from happening, that is up to your W, but be prepared for it.
