I don't think there is a magic formula to marriage. I believe that if both people really want it to work and put forth the effort, failure is impossible. Could someone convince you that there is a child who would be very hard if not impossible to love if he was yours? Love doesn't come from Cupid's arrows or fairy godmothers' wands. It is built day by day on a foundation. If anything, I am tired of talk of love happening to people like a thunderstorm on a sunny day. You can do it if you try.
