Puppy,
Thanks again. The financial disc will happen tonight. My L says no reason not to since all would have to be disclosed anyway. Maybe she will realize that with real estate values here, the chance of her keeping her nice house by buying me out is slim to none. We will see.

H4U, thanks. I have been following your sitch and things do look like they are headed in the right direction for you. Unfortunately we have a no-fault D system here, so the A has no bearing. But she will realize just how miserable I could be if we get that far. S13 and D16 will have a lot to say about who they would want to live with - as a child of that age, would you have been happy knowing your mom had an OM while married and lied to you about it. If things progress in a bad way, that WILL come out. The out-of-town friends even told WW that she could easily lose those two K's - why does she want to do this? Unfortunately D10 would be at the mercy of the court and as likely would ve the case, joint custody would be the best hope.

Anyway, I should not put the cart before the horse. The game is far from over.

Thanks to you both for keeping me focused.


LIS

M45
WW 43
D17/S14/D11

ILYB Jan 08
PA Conf Feb 08
OMW / OM contacted
S Jan / 09

No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.