Feeling HOT HOT HOT

[Rob1231]

Shoester,

I understand what you are saying, and that you don't want to hurt someone else the way that X hurt you. But BH and Trip are right, this is NOT the same situation.

You've learned and grown a lot through the DBing process, and one of the most important things you have learned is to take care of your own happiness first. There's a terrific guy out there that WILL ring all your bells, and vice versa - give yourself permission to take it slow and find him!