Dan,
I don't know if I'm sure this is the right time. However, there are somethings in favor of moving. The house we are in is in a suburb that has a lot of houses on the market, many of which are foreclosures. This house also needs alot of work before it could be sold. If H takes it over it is his problem, not mine. At this time we have a nice chunk of change in the bank. H has offered enough to make a sizeable downpayment. I would be able to get a house in a nicer area with a decent payment.

My oldest D isn't too happy about the thought of moving without her dad. She has pretty much figured out that means we will be getting a D. Of course we haven't told them yet because of whatever crazy reasons there are in this bizare twilight zone.


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008