people are telling me to fight for my marriage, and people are telling me to give up.
No, people are telling you to fight for your marriage BY "dropping the rope" and "detaching" and "GALing", which is different than giving up.
It's a question of METHOD.
The Facebook thing is meaningless. It's already obvious by her actions that she's emotionally checked out of the marriage. There's nothing to say that that's permanent.
