so forrest and smartcookie....could you explain what you mean by the chart? I got the concept, but what type of chart would work best? Explain!!!!!!!! please.
so my W is starting to miss the girls more when they're with me. She was really sad when i picked them up yesterday to stay the nite...... I felt bad so i asked if she wanted to have dinner with us...she said no, we have them in a good routine, it would mess them up to see us together for an extended period.....
we're in the process of potty training D2.... she went for the first time on the potty this morning..... texted W....she called to talk to D2....she sounded a little sad.
I sometimes wonder if it's going to make a difference. I hate sharing them, and doubt it would mess them up if we were together. She says they're happier now......which in some ways they are because we both do more with them. I know that this is a typical thought of a WAW (read it somewheres on here) but long term? I doubt it. There are many studies that show that kids have deep and profound implications when their parents D. THe hard part if that my W doesn't really look at those........
thoughts?
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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