Your assessment and insight of my sitch are appreciated.
I replied to you on my thread, but I want to put this here for you.
Your H is very lucky to have such a wonderful, smart, and insightful W. And from your posts, it would appear that you are lucky to have him too. I envy you (in the kindest sense! ) for the great new M you are building. I only hope and pray that I will get to that point someday.