Holy F'ing Sh*t! Your H deserves an honorary degree in Advanced DAM Tools. He could educate some of us here!
LOL, I tried to tell you guys, we had some rough "conversations". It blows my mind to look back & see what we went through & survived intact. I could tell you stories that would singe your eyebrows.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.