I personally wouldn't send a letter like that, but I'm not you and haven't been through what you have.
C/Dr. thought it would give me some closure, if it's what I want. He thinks the recent phone call was trying to get a foot in the door. He thinks "dad" will call or show up, once he's done with this picture album. The idea of that sends panic straight through me.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.