buster, she's decided the marriage is over. For your own sanity you need to stop concentrating on that. The only real option open to you is to become the best person you can be for yourself.
Look, I know it's hard. Read my threads and you'll see that I'm still not through this sh*t. It's hard to accept. But if your W thought there was any possibility, she wouldn't be doing what she's doing. You aren't going to say or do anything that's suddenly going to change her mind.
You need to be yourself and pursue what you want out of life. If in doing that you attract her back, great. But don't count on it. Make the circumstances the best they can be for you, because at the end of the day that's all you got. No matter how much you want your M. It takes two. Right now you've got one.
