I'm sure Sex and the City did get you. It's too bad so few men will see that movie. The message is good, but it is only reaching women.
I don't know what to think about your H, but I am sure that if he says he wants to try to work on the marriage again, that you will need to insist on either Retrouvaille or counseling. He has shown that he only thinks about pleasing himself, and in a family you have to be consider everyone's wellbeing. He needs someone to bring this to his attention, and he doesn't listen to you.
