Just saw one of your post in Newcomers and was quite perturbed by it. You said that if the marriage is still young and infidelity has set in, it's not worth it to pursue?
My marriage is close to 2 years (bomb dropped after 15 months) but have been together for 4 years. H felt trapped in the marriage because I was too controlling...and yes I was! He wanted S but has not done it yet. Now he has OW and claims he loves her more than me...thinks it's EA. Have realised problems in our M, and have done 180 on those.
I'm just quite worried after what you've said about young marriages with infidelity in the beggining. H did say he didn't believe in M but may one day settle down???
So...what's your opinion on this? H had since been more relaxed and caring since bomb drop 3 months ago.....have been DBing all this time....
I'm confused...
Sorry...to hijack your thread...but need some advise if possible....thanks.
