Hi Ellie, just stopped by to say thanks for the numerous times you have helped me out. A very belated Happy Anniversary to you both!! Great that you are bumping up the numbers on the success list.

Admittedly I havent read your entire V.D Massacre..a lot of it, but not all, but I have managed to reef some important things from it. My turn around came when I stopped caring what he did..that I was only responsible for myself and my children, and he would just have to face his choices at some stage, either with me to help him or with OW / by himself. That change by the way, has only happened in the last week or so. But wow I feel so much more in control of me! Still get sad, but hey..that could just be pregnant hormones amongst everything else!!

Thanks again for being everywhere for everyone. It's great to have such wonderful advice available to us.

Jen