Thanks FIB - I caught on about the babysteps from you a while back. You had mentioned that in one of your first posts to me. I don't get caught up in that any more. One thing I have learned from your sitch is that if she is really ready to recommit to ouyr marriage, I will see that and it won't be because of babysteps.

Only 5%?? That's scary.

Honestly there have been times in the last 6 months where I have felt like telling her to go to he!! But it's the aadvice I get fom you guuys like - remember it's not about you - that gets me past that.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.